I have a funny story to share though and it’s not about my experience, it’s about my Mom’s. She got a letter in the mail late last year from a lawyer asking her information because her best friend of over 50 year’s husband had passed away and he was leaving her some money. Never in a million years would she had ever expected that. He was a tight wad, as we like to call them here in Texas. They didn’t have any children and she had passed away about five years earlier. Anyway he’s always given money to the college where he went and everyone just assumed that’s where it would go. Let me also clarify that the man was filthy rich!
First, lots of people mistakenly focus just on their thoughts, all the while feeling like crap, and then get disappointed when they don’t seem to be making any progress. While thoughts are certainly an important part of the equation, we attract based on what we feel, and if we don’t feel good, all the affirmations and happy thoughts in the world won’t do jack unless we manage to build some momentum on the level of emotion.
We attract painful situations using our subconscious mind. To use your example of a woman in an abusive relationship, of course a woman consciously thinks, “I want a kind and caring partner” but as a child she learned that she wasn’t good enough, and as a result her subconscious mind now believes she doesn’t deserve a loving relationship. The subconscious mind thinks that love comes from people who don’t love and appreciate her, and her abusive partner reflects all of the limiting beliefs she holds about herself. Lets also not forget that this relationship did not simply fall into the woman’s lap– she agreed to go on the date. She agreed to be in a relationship with this person. And after the person began to behave abusively — through words or actions, the woman had a choice to immediately leave the situation, or to stay in it. If she doesn’t leave, then every moment she stays she is actively creating that abusive situation in her life. None of us are victims even though it appears that way on the surface, to upgrade to a better state of existence we simply need to find and question those beliefs that are holding us back and stopping us from attracting what we truly desire. Sometimes this can take years of therapy, or just a few minutes. It depends on how open and willing we are to see ourselves as we really are, it can be very upsetting to face our deepest wounds and admit how we hurt and damage other people in response to our inner pain. But in my experience, when we do finally let go of our subconscious blueprints that create the world around us, good fortune flows effortlessly. It’s amazing how available everything is to us, we just can’t see it while we’re living our lives in our little boxes we created for ourselves as young children,
1. Beliefs - Through your beliefs and definitions, you create your reality. Your definitions and beliefs determine what kind of feelings and thoughts and behaviors you exhibit, that then re-enforce your reality that you have created with your belief. Beliefs are the blueprint, the first step and the definition is the key, not just the thought. Some people interchange those concepts of the law of attraction and say thoughts create your reality. What they really mean is the basic fundamental belief creates the reality. What you believe is true is what you experience. Then the thoughts go hand in hand to re-enforce them.
Today is Friday! First, let me say I went to my job 9 in the morning and our checks didn’t come yet! Mind you, I spent my last to get there. All I could do was go back home. I was upset a first but I took a deep breath and told myself that everything that happens is for my greater good. Later that afternoon, my sister let my use her car to go pick my check up. To my WONDERFUL surprise.. I had TWO checks waiting for me. As far as I know, I was only suppose to receive one! I definitely walked out the building feeling so good! The first words that came to mind were Thank You God.
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I don’t have any rituals per se, but there are certain things I do that help me feel more abundant. When I am enjoying something I paid for, whether a tasty meal, a massage or something else that gives me pleasure in some way, I really try to tune into the feeling of appreciation I have for it, and the sense of contentment I feel in that moment. I also try to develop a sense of appreciation for having money to pay bills..rather than feel like I am putting my money towards something I don’t want to put it towards, I express appreciation that I have the money to pay the bill. Awhile back, I went through really bad times financially, and the inability to pay my bills created a lot of shame and embarrassment,and I am happy not to be experiencing that anymore.
3. What is it exactly that you want to be different? If you want more money to come in the door, how much and how often? Do you want an extra $10,000 this year or every month? Do you want your business to gross an extra million or net an extra million? When? This month? This year? By next year’s end? You have to choose, or it becomes one of those “someday” goals (aka as a wish!).
Symbolize your financial success. Find a way to symbolize what you want to experience with money via real life objects. For example “money out of the clear blue” could be coins spilling out of a clear blue plastic cup. “Financial windfall” could be represented by faux bills taped into a blue windsock. Each time you see your symbol you'll be triggered to remember/focus on your money desire. (Likely it's the fun factor that makes this one work so well!)
“It isn’t about making money or not making money,” I tell him. “How you feel about yourself and your life will determine your next experience. Are you feeling fulfilled? Are you feeling happy? Do you feel that you have reached a successful place in your career and domestic life? Do you have relationships that are satisfying? Are you growing in your understanding of yourself? Do you believe in yourself and do you believe you are worthy of everything you want?”
Sorry for this being so long but I just wanted to share because I know it can motivate someone to keep pushing and keep trying. Like i said, I was down to my last and The Higher Power made a way for me to eat, and get around. You have to trust and believe. I know it’s easy to say than do but you have to go within and find a way. Keep your mind and feelings focused on what you want. When something negative pops up, I revise what is said in my head or I would listen to music until i felt better. I’m going to keep this up and WHEN something more amazing happens, I’ll definitely share it with you guys. Many blessing to you..
Suppose your mobile phone broke and you have to buy a new phone which makes you think a lot of thoughts like “this is an unexpected expenditure”, “I should have been more careful”, “I should just buy an average phone to save money” etc.. Now, you must understand that you cannot do anything about it, so you turn it into a good opportunity to work on your inner beliefs that say you do not earn enough money to spend it on unexpected things.
I realized that if I want to keep any future money I find, I need to be specific and claim it as mine. I add layers of intent daily and I am also more aware of my surroundings – making a game out of it. Seek and Ye shall surely find! I have also discovered that money will come to you in unexpected ways. It can come as a reward for doing the right thing by returning something to a grateful owner. I should know, it happened to me twice in one week!
That’s how you need to feel now. Even if you are in a place that could be better, you need to remember that life is on your side and the Law of Attraction is constantly working to attract what you want most into your life. So as long as you tell a good story and focus on what you want, life is on your side. Everything is working out for you. Everything is lining up so that you can get what you want.
This can be done through affirmations and surrounding yourself in the energy of abundance. You can do this by dressing up in your best clothes, daily gratitude practice to be thankful for what you do have right now and also repeating mantras and affirmations that help to rewire your feelings about money. This can help so much to get you into the feeling space to welcome in prosperity. Feel worthy.
Abundance Checks. Every month, take a blank check and fill in your name, the amount, and all the other details. Sign it “The Universe,” “God,” “Source,” or any cosmic entity you prefer. Even “Your Fairy Godmother” works. Look at the check every day when you wake up and when you go to bed. Feel that you already have that money now. Imagine spending it. Really immerse yourself in how wonderful it is. Know that the money is already yours.
Plant signs of wealth. Often our environment reflects financial struggle rather than the reality we prefer. Stack the deck in your favor by immersing yourself in signs of wealth that don't actually cost a lot: slip a faux black Amex card in your wallet, put an extra key on your key chain for the summer home, write appointments in your calendar for the meeting with your VIP investment adviser. How to Manifest Your Millions: 3 Tips for Attracting Wealth